The Charlie Brown Syndrome (was RE: Open Letter To This List)

by way of Tyler Nally (macman@techheadnet.com)
Fri, 07 Nov 1997 12:36:34 -0500




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> From: Bill Clifton <woodrow_@geocities.com>
> To: higher-fire@prairienet.org
> Subject: The Charlie Brown Syndrome (was RE: Open Letter To This List)
> Date: Thursday, November 06, 1997 3:46 PM
> 
> Lynna Lunsford wrote:
> > 
> <snip>
> > As for as the other (injured) party,....... Forgive..........!
> > Jesus told them what? 70 times 7 in one day???
> > A little quick math anyone? 490 times in one day we must forgive the
same
> > person for doing the same thing , over, and over, an over.
> > Get IT?  No matter what they do to you....
> > No matter what they say about you....
> > No matter how many times...
> > Even If you think they did it on purpose...
> > YOUR Responsibility is to forgive.
> > Dont you worry about them, If they dont repent, their punishment will
be
> > more than suffiient !
> > God is THE JUDGE.....
> 
> 
> The real questiosn is do we allow people to get in the position to keep
> doing us wrong or do we use wisdom to avoid the situation (which in a
> sense is judging the person)?? Then again if we know a person will fail
> in a situation and dont avoid the situation are we placing a stumbling
> block in that persons way??
> 
I Believe in forgiveness with wisdom attached. I hate anything to do with a
secret to begin with because it usually will not be a secret for long. I
would not put myself in the position to be hurt or befriended. Yes forgive
the person and trust the person, but a secret might be there weakness as
others have various weaknesses. It is not wise to be in a area where we may
be tempted such as being by a tavern if are weakness was drinking before we
were saved. You can also put yourself in the other persons shoes by looking
at the times you failed God and still want him to use you as well as trust
you with his glorious gospel. Its better not to have a secret at all I
guess if it might wound you at some point.
Randy Bailey
No Alter, No Fire!!